Young children especially toddlers can be very expressive and sometimes misunderstood when they are only trying to communicate.  I’d like to share 5 ways to help deal with biting, screaming, yelling, meltdowns, tantrums, spitting, throwing objects and hitting.

1.  Be consistent. When communicating with students be clear and consistent with language stating and showing  the behavior you want to see.

2. Build strong relationships. Listen and try to understand what the child is trying to communicate.  Learn each student’s likes and dislikes even routines at home from their parents.

3. Be thorough. In your documentation and actions that you take. I know teachers are quite busy. However, make the time because I found documentation to be particularly useful.  You may find behavior patterns, triggers or elements which help you prevent unwanted behaviors.

4. Be in control of your emotions. It is especially important as the teacher that you stay in control of your emotions and stay emotionally regulated to properly support the child.

5. Don’t speak to a child when their hot button is on.  Speak to the child who seems angry or frustrated when they are calm and are ready to listen to you.

These 5 tips have helped me over the years when working with children with behavioral challenges. Now you can add these to your teaching toolbox.

Annette Serwanga,M.A.Ed